MY HAIR: COLOR BRAND AND IN THE IN BETWEEN LOL


CONFESSION OF A FAT GIRL: RANDOM TRUTHFUL EROTIC STORIES...

So today I say him and I couldn't stop the butterflies I have to have the most sexiest boss in America. Ladies meet Mr. Glen Cage Made the Forbes 2010 and 2011 businessman to watch list. Now I know what you're thinking lust at the work place is so wrong. I know but I can't seem to help myself I have tried not to look but it's something about him. It could be the 6'3 frame broad shoulders locs to the middle of his or the perfect smile that makes you want to just bake him a pie. The ladies have been talking all week since he's been gone of vacation with God knows who she is truly lucky. I swear if men could hear what women talk about their barbershop conversations would look like Sunday school lessons. I sit and listen never would I ever join since my sex life is about none existent but that's another story in itself.

"so what kind of women do you think Mr.Cage goes for" Nicole couldn't help but wonder

"I'm sure with his kind of money she is for sure white" Tasha had seen men like him cross the fence

"white and let's not forget skinny" both laughed in unison

" duh" Nicole stated

" I bet he has big one probably with a curve" Tasha stated licking her lips



Today was his first day back and I could tell he went somewhere tropical his caramel toned skin has a light tan. I wondered quietly as the two had mental sex with Mr. Cage a man like that for sure has great taste. Since I've been in the company 4yrs he has spoke to me in passing but manages to send me followers every year for my birthday. At first I thought it was some secretary or mail man paid to keep up with his 1,000 employees and send them some card or in my case flowers . To My great surprise this year they came hand delivered with that smile of his. It was the talk of the office for a week until some of women said my grandmother had died and he just felt sorry for me. I mean was it impossible for a man wealthy and handsome to like me and all of me. when  I say all of me I mean my 5'6 frame 215 lb frame ample breast full thighs and the biggest heart in the world. I guess my natural hair no make up and self sufficient attitude wasn't in high demand. I chopped it up to him wanting to be a good guy and kept those flowers until they were damn near dust.

There he was tan looking good and would almost bet he smelled even better. why wasn't he turning to go to his office. what was he doing on my floor in the section of customer service. OMG maybe it's a inspection I'm not prepared I haven't read the mandatory emails in almost three weeks. I really hope he doesn't ask me any questions. I might as pack my things now because lord knows with school and work I have been to consumed.

"Hi Ms. Reid haven't seen you since your birthday did you like the flowers?" He smiled

"Yes I did they were wonderful and the smelled great sir How was the vacation if you don't mind me asking ?'

" The Vacation was great Bora Bora is a place for lovers you know ?"

"I bet well you and your date had a great time for sure" Now I was diggin no harm right

"Date? I hate to inform you Ms.Reid but I'm single" putting up his ring finger to show it bare skin

"oh wow no ring" this had to be the best news since Obama won at least my afternoon day dreams wouldn't be ruined.

Tasha and Nicole have sat in my cubicle for the past 2 years and I've really gotten a chance to know them. sitting any where else would feel weird it's like we wait on each other to get to work so we can all sit together. Now our boss The owner was standing here having a prolonged conversation about God Knows what and Tasha and Nicole ears was burning trying to ease drop. You had to be there to see it I swear Nicole almost feel out her chair twice. I was getting kind of nervous about our conversation it was getting a bit personal guess you can blame it on me and probing ass.

" Ms.Reid Can I  ask you a Personal Question?" he smiled

"yes of course as long as it's not too Personal" chuckling to my nasty thoughts

" Can I take you out on a date?" His eyes wondered nervously bouncing off the walls


******OKAY THAT'S IT************** LOL NEXT WEEK EVERY FRIDAY I WILL CONTINUE THIS STORY!

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT WOMEN THINKING A CERTAIN "TYPE OF MAN" IS OUT OF A FAT GIRLS LEAGUE?

DISCUSSIONS LET'S GO!

MY LIFE IS LIKE A DRAG SHOW!

How is everyone doing today me I'm great! I got a chance to review a new nail tech who came highly recommended (look for her interview soon). I always get basic colors pinks yellows beige never have I ever gotten stones or different colors or patterns on my nails. Today was the day to live outside of my box of the norm and boy did I live!

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comfy day as you can see!

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before gel overlay these are my acutal nails.....

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The outcome I like the fact that she does crystals and not plastic stones they cost a bit more but hey who cares!

After getting my nails done I along with a few friends headed over to lips restaurant for the time of our life. Now what they won't tell you is on Thursday the cover charge is five dollars less and the crowd isn't as big as a weekend which means faster service and for a cheaper price. They are a franchise with locations in new york and san diego so if their in your area check them out you won't be disappointed!

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That catsuit was hot!

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Tina was the best I promise!

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my best friend in the whole wide world!

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The drink menu is too funny

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sealed with a kiss!



Outfit 1: shirt dorothy perkins, Pants: Torrid Shoes: Karmaloop Bag: my shop coming soon!

Outift 2: Dress Forever21 Shoes Aldo

ONLINE STORE IS UP!

YES IT'S UP and boy am I excited so many times I buy things in some cases in three's and two's and wear them once and never wear them again. I've created curvy chic Inc. it is soley my finding and reselling I will not sell anyone something that I will not wear myself. I hope all enjoy I will be posting items up bi weekly so ladies be on the look out any questions feel free to ask and I am always here and always open and willing!

CLICK CLICK HERE FORE CURVY CHIC FOR CURVY CHIC! 

DIET DILEMMA!

So I asked the question on my fb page for afatgirlsblues be sure to like me on fb the link is posted right ^above^. The question posed was how happy are you with your size are you truely embrassing your weight as a fat girl or do you desire to be smaller?

So here is my personal journey with weight all my teen life I was 140 lbs yes me a buck fourty can  you imagine. well let's just say after graduation I received a job that allowed me the perks of fine dining in five star restaurants and the food took over. I am not a major snack person I don't eat junk food I eat good food I always joke about that. People think that being fat you got there by eating twinkies and little debbie snacks. welp newsflash it always isn't the case I know several of my friends who don't even eat junk food. I have a friend who actually only eats healthy and she is still big but she's healthy.

A friend of mines recently talked about using HCG I did my research and it seems have been around for sometime now? so how far would you go to lose weight? and would you consider trying something like HCG? I really would like to lose 50 lbs but right now I'm just trying to figure out which direction to go about it. How have diet treated you.

WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT: ETSY!

any fat girl who knows and loves fashion has heard of jibri I have never ordered from there but they can easily be found on etsy. for those of you who don't know what etsy is exactly. I took the privlege of looking it up on yahoo.

Etsy is an e-commerce website focused on handmade or vintage items as well as art and craft supplies. These items cover a wide range including art, photography, clothing, jewelry, edibles, bath & beauty products, quilts, knick-knacks and toys. Many individuals also sell craft supplies like beads, wire, and jewelry-making tools. All vintage items must be at least 20 years old. These items range from old boots and ice skates, to dresses, hats and scarves. The site follows in the tradition of open craft fairs, giving sellers personal storefronts where they list their goods for a fee of $0.20.[2] It has been compared to "a crafty cross between Amazon and eBay,"[3] and to "your grandma's basement."[4]

etsy is cool and fun way to find both unique and one of a kind items now it's no easy task but every now and then I just browse the site and you'd be surprised with the things I find in just 15 minutes my cart was full of things I desire from this lovely place.

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*IF YOU SEE A ITEM YOU LIKE I SUGGEST YOU FAVORITE THE STORE SOME STORES WILL SEND YOU A PROMO CODE FOR JUST LIKING THEIR STORE* GOOD LUCK!

TESTING TESTING TESTING 123!

you know I love a baragin so let me introduce you to the birch box you pay $10 monthly and you receive a box filled with large samples. I'm not talking generic brands either NARS, PHILOPSHY PRODUCTS, ESSIE NAIL POLISH. sounds sweet huh I think this both is essential for any blogger or youtube person who loves being in on the up and new products and you can do a review without actually buying the full product. visit http://www.birchbox.com/ and sign up!

I am always ready and willing to hear what ppl have to say about saving money and or tips. so let's hear it!

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also I took a visit over to shoe dazzle who threw a series of questions about your style give you a showroom of designs they think best suits you all the shoes are under $40 dollars and I would say they got me pretty down pat. miss kim k is the spokeswoman for this company and does a pretty good job and promoting the company. have you tried shoedazzle?

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FALL IS HERE AND I STILL DON'T CARE!

Well I enjoyed my days off it was my friend carlos 21st b day and we decided to tip out for a few drinks. I don't know what it is about turning 21 that makes you just have to have drink. well I know it's fall and all the lovely blogs have been featuring fall trends but I live in Miami and it's always hot even when it's suppose to be cold so if you looking for layers and things of that sort this is not the place for you lol.

I read a previous comment that leggings aren't suppose to be worn as pants for those ppl I say shut up they are comfy cute and they make my bum look big so let me live why don't cha!

what are some of your do's and don't as a fat girl? I'm listening!

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skirt: forever 21 $6 shirt thrifted $1.50 and pumps chinese laundry $25 via marshalls

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me and my mom finally went thrifting due to her not feeling well we missed a weeks but this time we actually donated and boy did it feel good!

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The ppl in the store had their eyes on those blue pumps!

outfit skirt goodwill $4 shirt thrifted (express 100% silk) $2 sandals from traffic

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I headed out for a quick bite to eat and decided to throw on my sneakers which I hardly ever wear actually that was the first time.

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jacket thrifted via old navy 5 bucks tights 10 bucks shoes 20 bucks from nikeoutlet shirt 7.50 walmart
so that's this week run down I hope it was a fun in the pics as it was in real life!

XOXOXOXOXO
-AFATGIRL

HEEL CONDOM ANYONE?

Hello Beautifl People!



As you know I am always looking for a new way to either make money or save money so I can spend money on clothes lol. Well after crazy hours and random web surfing I discovered A heel condom! now now don't be alarmed I know what you thinking. I at first thougt it was some kind of protector for the heel cause lord knows walking on cement and or rocks can do some major damgage. To my Surprise it wasn't A heel condom is actually a add on to your heels. It takes a basic pump that you have worn a million times and makes it something different and most of all unique! I contacted the lovely people at www.highheeljunkie.com and asked could permission to mention them on my blog. The response was not only great and fast. I was offered a contact number if I had any questions or issues about the condom. listed below are a few pics of my favorite high hell condoms! All high heel condoms range from $25 to $45 instead of buying a shoe for twice and sometimes three times the price is looking pretty nice you do the math.



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so when I arrived home last night I saw that package and jumped for joy my condom had arrived so here is my pictures! The quality of the heel condom was great and it covered my heel perfectly. I would hand wash them of course because in the washer i'm not sure they would hold up. I would recommend these to anyone that is wanting to switch things up and not spend a pretty penny doing it. overall high heel junkie gets A+



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BBW STRIP CLUB: THICK THURSDAY

Okay so during my days off and spending time with the fam. I was surfing the web (facebook) and saw a friends status say she was going a bbw club. Now after several Instant Messages and status comments I was given the information to "THICK THURSDAYS" I was genuinely intrigued and just had to go and see what this was truly about.  upon my arrival I was greated by the club promoter who is a Male. The spot was nice quiet and had two full bars. The MC was model from los angeles by the name of bb desiree who was well dressed and beautiful if you as me. It was rather spacious and music ranging from reggae to hip-hop to neo soul. so this is where it gets a little tricky.......

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After a few cocktails and speculation of strippers I finally heard the annoucement. "the ladies will be out in ten minutes" true to form there they were. Three BBW ranging from 190lbs to 250lbs. I know because the brochcure they gave me upon entering had the guidelines for any bbw who wanted to join for a night. There were men in the club and most were pretty decent looking no bums lol. The cover charge was 15 for ladies and 20 for men. I would have to say it was very liberating to see these women dancing, getting money thrown at them, and having the confidence to do so!

so what do you think? would u participate in a bbw club?
are bbw strippers liberating or embarassing?


Thick Thursdays are actually in several states feel free to visit the website and see if there is one near you! HERE

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Creator of Thick Thursday

GOLDY LOCS.....

Hello world so I've been off for past two days and I finally broke out the gold dress lol since it's so out there I went with the blue heel and called it a day. A few of my readers want to know about my hair I will just do a video about it today......I have been having a taste for sushi for the past two weeks I think I will feed that habit today!

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DON'T BREAK THE BANK......

I am a true believer in IF YOU CAN'T AFFORD IT please let me repeat please don't get the knock off. meaning DON'T get the gucci and it says pucci like really? 0_o BUT if there is something that looks familiar and doesn't break the bank I say go for it. During my online shopping today I came across these boots at gojane.com which looks so similar to jeffrey campbell lita boot (don't you think)which retails for $160 compared to go jane boot at $29.70 with the promotional code of FALL20R with an additional 20 percent off!!!! until 09/15/2011 so don't pass it up! You can't BEAT THAT WITH A STICK! Trends come and go and sure as you spend $160 in this economy it's always great to have an alternative option. Do you have any? how do you feel about replica's or "inspired" articles?

I LOVE THE SHOE BUT THE PRICE TAG IS SOMETHING ELSE!

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SO WHICH WOULD YOU GO FOR AND WHY? COMMENT COMMENT COMMENT!

OOTW: A LITTLE BIT OF THIS AND THAT

HELLO WORLD!

 I know that most ppl have outfits of the day in my case seeing as in how I wear a uniform 5 days a week when I do dress up it will usually always be at night and on a weekly basis. This week I was able to have a three day weekend and boy did I enjoy it! I work on the weekends but was fortuante to have friday off. I took the oppurtunity to watch Kevin Hart: Laugh at My Pain. It was sooooooo funny it's released in limited theatres and only at AMC which sucks for a lot of ppl. I am studying for a promotion so these late night roaming will have to cease for sometime. I am blessed to have a family bond and friends who love me enough to support me and push me. I recently went thrifting and almost lost my mind.....I'm really going to take my camera with me next time. I love Goodwill however over the week I visited some true blue thrift stores on wed and thur they actually have 50% off certain prices. I even took my aunt who is a senior citizen to get her discount ( don't judge me) lol. Goodwill was actually charging 5, 10 and 14 dollars for some items. The thrift store I attended had prices of 2, 3 5 and even 50 cent for some items.

OUT FIT #1 BAR/PARTY ATTIRE.
I WASN'T READY LET'S TRY IT AGAIN!
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OKAY NOW I WAS READY! DETAILS: SHIRT (really a dress) $30/ PANTS: FOREVER 21 $24/SHOES ALDO $110 /BAG: MY BOUTIQUE $50 OUTFIT #2 MALL/CHURCH COMFY AS CAN BE!

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I FINALLY BROKE OUT THE WHITE ONE NO ONE WANTED TO BUY IT CAUSE OF THE COLOR BUT I LOVE THAT BAG TO DEATH! DETAILS: SHIRT FOREVER 21 $20/ PANTS MICHAEL KORS I FORGOT BUT ABOUT A $100/BAG MY BOUTIQUE $50/ SHOES STEVE MADDEN $50

OUT FIT #3 MOVIES AND DRINKS

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SHIRT OPEN.....


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SHIRT CLOSED....

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I LOVE THOSE SHOES! DETAILS CAMI WALMART $5/ SHIRT: THRIFTED 5O CENT/ TIGHTS DOTS $10/ SHOES: STEVE MADDEN MARSHALL $7

YOU CAN BE HOT AND NOT SPEND THE BANK......TIPS!

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TIPS: ONLINE SHOPPING

  • SIGN UP!  YEP! If you purchase from a online store signup for their newsletter I personally create a seperate acccount for those purposes. You will the first to know the deal and most sites give you a discount for signing up.

  • STUDENT? Always check to see if student discounts are an option. Amazon actually has a student program where the shipping and price is discounted automatically and it applies to ANYTHING! Dorothy Perkins as well have a student program.

  • PROMO CODE! With the help of the internet I DON'T PURCHASE ANYTHING WITHOUT SEARCHING FOR A PROMO CODE FIRST!  I think that should be a law it's great to search for a code even if something is on sale the right code can bring it down lower.


MAKE UP TIP:

EXCHANGE: Most of my friends  love to play in make up like me so you guessed it WE WILL SWAP in a minute! I am guilty of going into M.A.C and buying 5 tubes of gloss. so  once a month we get together and exchange things from make up to accessories to shoes.

HAIR STORE BRANDS: Sticking to brands we know is a comfort zone in all honesty for my concelar I use Posner Stick that can only found  in the hair store and one of the best make up artist at bobbi boss gave me that tip. it cost like 6 bucks!

SAMPLE...SAMPLE...SAMPLE! Now I have bought items from the M.A.C store and it's not my shade, too light to bright to shiny TOO EVERYTHING. ask for a sample not only is it time to figure out what works for you but most of all IT'S FREE!








BLACK WITH A LITTLE BIT OF BLUES...

Welp I decided to go out for dinner to one of my favorite chain restaurants Outback Steakhouse. I was mad for one they discontinued my lobster topping for steak which is down right hurtful. I was really disappointed and confused with this conclusion but hey what can I do. A few hours and drinks later here I was standing outside enjoying everything that night had to offer. Laughter could be heard for miles good genuine fun. when was the last time you had fun? Don't get so caught in life that you forget to live!
  
  Me and My mom found this jacket which is a relatively long blazer. I searched for one of these. I found it at good will for $8 bucks but I talked the guy down to $4. I own a pair of blue pumps but I was recently gifted these from guess where? Payless! Lord knows I haven't been in that store in years. The shoe was $30 with a second pair for $15 (my kind of deal). My earrings were custom made and made from cloth and only cause me $18.

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MEN'S FALL LOOK....

For all the ladies who shop for their man recently I made a trip to Miami's infamous shoe gallery and was the first female and only photographer allowed. It's hard haulin some boutiques and independent retailers simply because of them questioning motives and protecting their company. Now Im sure some of you would like to shop for your partner so here's a look into what's hot for men since a lot of them don't know what their wearing lol. Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket Photobucket