OUTFIT OF THE DAY......RANDOMNESS BUT HOT!


Today is not a famous female/male celeb but a pic I found on Tumblr. I love this outfit everything about it screams fall with a twist.

SEX WITH THE LIGHTS ON " A MAN'S RANT".....LET'S TALK LADIES!

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How does the above picture make you feel? Do you find yourself focusing on her large thighs and rolls? If the answer is yes then......let's just say that's an issue. I have never had a problem accepting my body. My issue are usually with intimacy but that's a whole other section (we will get there trust!). So it was 4am and my phone rings and rings and stops and then rings again. My friends are persistent when they wanna talk and see no problem that I just may be sleep. I never complain because trust and believe I will intrude on them as well. Well the topic of the night was from a male friend name Brandon*. I quickly grabbed my pen and paper and with his approval these are the short notes of our convo

Me: what is the problem that you are calling me at 5am?
Him: Man I feel like I'm cheating every time I go out. I just left the club and saw a bad juicy chick. She was dancing and shit man it was sexy as fuck. Why My girl can't be like that?
Me: Boy you crazy every time I see Kim* she is dressed nice you crazy.
Him: Linda what the fuck her clothes have to do with her being sexy please tell me that. When you see her dressed up it more for the club then me trust me. when we get home I have to damn near beg for it and if we do the damn lights go off man that shit drive me crazy. I try to touch her stomach she moves my hand. It's really a turn off like I need someone to own that shit. I love her I do but something has gotta give
Me: Wow
Him: yeah wow she don't want me to see her stretch marks she complain about her body all the damn time. I never thought about her in that manner but the way she keeps talking bout it has me looking. I mean how much more can I tell her she's perfect if she doesn't feel it herself. The shit driving me crazy. I feel like she's pushing me to be with someone else.
Me: hold up nobody can push you to be with someone else but I understand your situation.
Him: We go out to the Mall somewhere she asking me to look at other chicks and do I like her body, her shape, do I wanna sleep with her. Like what the hell. I never cheated but shit it's almost like she want me to.


This Conversation Lasted Almost A hour and a half and he made a lot of valid points. I mean sometimes we as people fat,black,skinny,tall.short etc. can cause our own failure. Brandon and his girl haven been together for about 4 years. She has admitted to me that she knows he love her and never cheated but she feels so nasty. Not only was sex with the lights off  a must she now had area's that were now off the market. If you don't love YOU how can you ever expect someone else to? I mean I'm not saying I'm a hero and never faced issues but my body has never been one of them. Like I said that's a whole other topic and you gals will not get me to talk about it just yet Gosh! lol  But I mean he knows you have rolls He knows that your thighs scrub and you may or may not has blackened inner thighs (lol I'm sorry but this is actually a problem for some ppl). This is not a fat girl issue AT ALL I have a few friends of all sizes that at our girl talk sessions admit that they don't feel sexy. Almost all of them are looking for their spouse to make them feel wanted,desired,sexy etc. but honestly ladies it starts within and I will preach this until the end of time. IT'S TIME TO ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE AND LOVE IT ALL.  I no longer wanna see albums of just face shots because you don't think your body needs to be seen. LOVE  IT ALL.....<IT'S A MOVEMENT>!!!!!!!

LET'S TALK!

IT'S MEET AND GREET TIME!


I hope to see you gals out! The holidays are here and if your'e anything like me and want to be fly for the holidays this is a perfect time. sorry that it's blurry it came from my phone *shrug*. All plus size ladies get 20% percent off their order!

OUTFIT OF THE DAY......MISS KIM AND THAT WHITE BLAZER!


As Much as People want to not like Ms.Kim K one thing you can't deny is that Women sense of style. I almost passed out when I saw this pic. It's something about a white blazer that really does something to me! Also her white fringe clutch is hot this is a perfect way to make a regular dress pop. Throwing on a blazer can take any outfit from day to night and right back if you ask me. Are you feeling her?

RECAP OVER THE PAST TWO WEEKS!

Okay I know sometimes I'm all over the place and these past two weeks are no different. I was at home mind my own business when I get a notice in my phone that I had a fb message. Upon reading it a fb friend of mines Ms. Tekia Parks. She stated she had a free to ticket to see singer/song writer Miguel. I was shocked that out of all the ppl she choose me. I quickly confirmed that I would be there! I don't have many friends (trust issues) but the one's I do are male like Carlos (see pic below).

We walked in to Cafe Iguana's and the vibe was very much so grown and sexy. Just a bit to crowded Miguel hadn't arrived yet but it was only 12pm which is normal for any artist. We decided that our feet couldn't stand by the stage for hours just to save a seat. The next best option was to purchase a table and sit out butts down. Which is exactly what we did! around 1am Miguel arrived and boy did we have great seats. He dressed well and Tekia was screaming at the top of her lungs. We wasn't groupies but definitely major fans that night. I have to admit I enjoyed her company I can't wait until the next time we hang out. Whenever you can have fun with no drama and laughs with another woman it's a great night!

Oh and my co worker came out and I couldn't have been any happier!
Outfit: shirt Macy's Karen Scott $60, Pants: Seven Jeans Jeggings $60 (Macy's) and Shoes Aldo black wedges $110







So That was Miguel then comes Thanksgiving Dinner which I cooked everything this year. My friend Carlos bought a Shredded Pork Shoulder (don't you just love when ppl bring dishes?) and it was the best thing I ever had! It was fun spending time with my family and enjoying their company. I invited a few ppl none of who attended but called for a plate in the late hours of the night smh. so here goes!

  Ma.....fixing food lord knows that lady can make a plate!
 The Outfit wanted to keep it simple and cute since we were heading out to the beach for a walk!
 she said she looked like she was from the motherland with that scarf on her head hence next pic it was gone!

she really love her some carlos I do too!

Outfit run down..... shirt Michael Kors $110 (which you can wear long or short) pants American Rage $60 Bag: Gucci Boston Bag $1.095 Shoes: Steve Madden (can't remember but I know they were on sale!)

CONFESSIONS OF A FAT GIRL......

No amount of Money could remove the stench of a hospital it's like the smell came along with it. I hated that smell and every time I visited my mother was no different. I had to bath as soon as I got home or would seriously feel uncomfortable the entire day. My Mother had an entire section of the hospital to her self. I had to pay a pretty penny to make sure she was comfortable and kept safe a much a possible. I still talked to her as If nothing was wrong with her. I kind of felt as if somewhere deep inside she understood me like a mother only could. These visit almost always ended with me in tears and just wishing that God heard my prayers just this once. It pained me  to have to see her laying in her bed tubes running threw her body as she lay there emotionless. It's Like I could remember it as if it happen five minutes ago and the Memories came rushing in all at once. Tears formed in the corner of his eyes seeing his mother the woman they birth him suffer in such a manner.

SO NEED THESE IN MY LIFE!

so I am planning on moving in the next month and This time around I really want to get into desgining my home. I mean it wasn't that bad before but I really just didn't try to make my home my castle. I guess when you are hardly there it's not a big deal. I left my walls white the way they came and really didn't do much else with the decor. I have recently been wanting to do more in my home and this move will be my reset button. I must admit I am excited about it. I have started early looking for new items and I must say Pier 1 and Bed Bath and Beyond are the ish! I came across these lovely and beautiful Mannequin's that I must have atleast one. I have always wanted one these patterns are soooo pretty I spotted a few vintage unrestored ones at goodwill a while back but these are just priceless!





OOTN: TWILIGHT EDITION!

I love Twilight that is my latest confession of the day so when the latest movie came out I was right there! I know that whenever I go to the movies I see women in skimpy dresses and heels. I know that style is not for seeing as in how I'm always cold. So here's my date night pick this yellow shirt is thrifted for 2 dollars (but there is a secret to that shirt look out for the thrift haul) my pants are American rage for $59 bucks from Macy's  they were worth every single dime. The jacket is thrifted from goodwill for $5 dollars and the shoes are Calvin Klein from Ross for $11.99. My bag is Gucci Boston Bag which was recently purchased from Saks for $1,095.


THE NASTY THINGS WOMEN DO TO EACH OTHER.......AND FOR WHAT?

                     ARE YOU ANGRY?






This topic has been on my mind for some time now. I can remember going out with my bestie and one of her friends she bought along. I had never seen her act in a manner so negative in my life. When we go out the vibe is usually always chill drunken nights are the best. This night was something totally different she was with someone new and they spent the entire night laughing at ppl all of who were women. I had seeing women being so negative towards each other. It's like Black Women are just destined to be negative I can't say all Black Women but the one's around my way are let's just say they're DIFFERENT!



OUTIFIT(S): GIRLS ROCK EDITION!


hey ladies!

Have you missed me? lord knows I've missed the heck out of you gals. I have been searching for the next outfit of the day. I never in a Million years thought I would mention Nicki Minaj and Outfit of the Day in the same sentence. She really won me over in this Oscar de la Renta lace and taffeta gown. I mean from the neck down she was fierce! So I stand up and give her a two second hand of applause.



Second Up is Ms. Solange the reason I picked her was I always see ppl color block with bright colors. This Pic is a perfect example of how to dress up color blocking with neutral colors. This outift can be worn to anyones job and not be so bold. I must say her Style is truly one of her own Ms.Knowles I see you girl!


Now The last and final gal of the day is Tracee Ellis Ross. I never really wear sneakers but if I did this is truly how I think they should be rocked.





WHAT TO WEAR FOR NEW YEARS EVER JOB PARTY....(BY REQUEST)!

The thing about job related functions is you have to figure out a way to be yourself and professional at the same time. I would suggest nothing more then a inch or two above the knee. Let's not even talk about cleveage as a woman who has bigger breast. I would say make sure a cover up is somewhere close by. I was contacted with this request by one of my lovely followers. when using Polyvore I try to make sure I stay within a reasonable price range.

new years eve outfit!


MEET AND GREET TIME.

Well I don't know how many of my followers are in the Miami/Broward area but I have some great news!
Boutiques on the Go has asked me to host a plus size forum/ Meet and Greet for their newly launched plus size selections. Feel Free to visit their FB page The event will take place Next Friday from 8pm until 10 pm. I will giving fashion advice and Tips for the curvy gals. I am also Incorporating a Curvy Confidence section were Ladies will be shown how to rock Lingere and Rock it with CONFIDENCE!. So ladies if you are in the Miami Area I would love to meet you!

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OUTFIT OF THE DAY: KERRY WASHINGTON!

I have not spotted a sequined dress I love this much since Jill Scott's music video. I was literally drooling when I spotted her in this dress at a GQ Man of the Year event. I just love it I am really living for her right now!


NAIL GRAPHIC IDEA!

I found this pic on tumblr and absolutely was in love with the concept. These open face glitter nails are to hot to explain. I will be showing this to my nail tech and I guarantee she will do a great replica. I love finding things online and applying them to my everyday wear. I am in law enforcement so stones never stay but  it is so pretty I will just have to give them a try would you rock em? I have to take my own base coat and top coat with me to the nail shop. I love my tech but I don't always love the products she uses so OPI clear is a must. So would you Rock em?


GIVEAWAY! STUDDED BAG

IF YOU LOOK AT MY ONLINE STORE YOU WILL SEE I HAVE SOLD OUT OF THE BLUE BUCKET STUDDED BAG. I HOWEVER RECEIVED SEVERAL INQUIRIES VIA EMAIL ABOUT SELLING MORE OF THEM . I BUY MYSELF A BAG OF EACH ONE I POST ON THE ONLINE STORE. SO I DECIDED TO GIVEAWAY MINES TO ONE OF MY FAB FOLLOWERS.  I WANT TO GIVE EVERYONE A FAIR CHANCE AT GETTING THIS BAG.  THIS IS BAG IS NEW STILL IN THE PACKAGE AND NEVER WORN.

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RULES:

1. MUST BE A FOLLOWER OF MY BLOG
2. MUST LIKE MY FB PAGE (IT'S LINKED RIGHT AT THE TOP!)
3. LEAVE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS ON THIS PARTICULAR POST

*****DEADLINE IS 11/26/2011 @ 12:00 PM********
I WILL NOTIFY THE WINNER VIA EMAIL OF THEIR WINNING. IF YOU WIN AND DO NOT RESPOND WITH YOUR MAILING ADDRESS. I WILL DO ANOTHER DRAWING AND YOUR WIN WILL BE VOID. I WILL USE RANDOM.ORG FOR THE DRAWING. THIS ITEM IS ABSOLUTELY FREE! GOOD LUCK MY FAB CHICA'S

THRIFTING THURSDAY: RED WHITE AND BLUE TIME!

  I had the pleasure of spending time with my entire family and even extended family this Thursday. My Mom loves thrifting and we mostly go to Goodwill but this week I felt like splurging lol. The red white and blue I go to in Flamingo Plaza is huge. I love that you can really find some jewels in there unlike goodwill the price is higher but the brands are also not the same. I wasn't equipped with my Nikon so please forgive the poor picture quality. I did the best I could with what I had I do it for you gals. I encourage everyone to thrift shop at least once in their lives. I promise you won't regret it and for sure will walk away with some of the hottest threads ever!

THE SHOES WERE HOT!

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A BETTER LOOK

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THIS IS ONLY THE FIRST FEW ROWS THEY HAVE ATLEAST 8 ROWS OF SHOES

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THE BAGS ARE HOT....THE AUTHENTIC LV'S AND GUCCI BAGS ARE BEHIND THE COUNTER.

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NOW THESE WERE JUST TO CUTE

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THESE ARE TO CUTE.

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YES YSL AND LOOK AT THE PRICE!

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IN THE PLAZA A FEW STORES DOWN WAS ANOTHER THRIFT STORE AND THEIR PRICES ARE JUST GREAT! I BOUGHT A SHIRT WHICH IS SOOOOO FAB IT DESERVES A YOUTUBE HAUL VIDEO (LOOK FOR IT SOON). WITH THE 50 PERCENT MY SHIRT WAS 2 DOLLARS WITH THE PURPLE TAG.

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