tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post212688797707577285..comments2023-11-06T00:50:46.350-08:00Comments on A Fat Girl Blues: CAN YOU HANDLE IT?afatgirlsblues.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12996041862730341690noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-84803547000834524842011-10-06T19:36:52.540-07:002011-10-06T19:36:52.540-07:00Honesty is still the best policy, you have to hono...Honesty is still the best policy, you have to honor you values, morals and beliefs. if others can't handle the truth it let's the rest of us know they may be dealing with low self-esteem. If that is the case then your friend should have a come to Jesus moment with herself. My fa,ily and friends no that If they ask a question of me they will get the truth but I don't deliver it in a way that will cause unnecessary hurt just the plain and simple truth. I learned somewhere along the way that you shouldn't ask a question you didn't want to hear the truth about.Toyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12895357303668220440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-32864428401269214352011-10-05T12:38:42.315-07:002011-10-05T12:38:42.315-07:00I am new to the whole blogging thing but I definit...I am new to the whole blogging thing but I definitely believe in honesty and I want people to be honest with me as well....I think that we all need to be open to constructive criticism ---people can dish it out but can't take it. And will somebody PLEASE tell people who can't take constructive criticism that it's not HATING if someone doesn't agree with an outfit choice (especially for valid reasons like the fit or if it's just plain not their style??) geesh......Style4Curveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07182487798088658077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-87162524288155737122011-10-04T15:32:17.156-07:002011-10-04T15:32:17.156-07:00Wow girl, you hit this right on! I feel the same w...Wow girl, you hit this right on! I feel the same way, sometimes I wonder if bloggers feel that they have to pose and be so sweet. There are times when I want to be candid or honest but I'm not too sure how without offending especially on the internet! with all of these report this content buttons and etc. I'm always worried I'll get kicked off blogger if someone doesn't appreciate my honesty, crazy I know lol<br /><br />It's complicated but I would love for everyone to be raw and upfront with me too. I hate yes people, yes you look great, yes that outfits cute, yes i like your messed up hair yes yes yes<br /><br />smh<br /><br />xoxo,<br />daisyJust Daisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05571789671696963871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-21326779107902945072011-10-04T09:25:42.525-07:002011-10-04T09:25:42.525-07:00I feel the same way. I recently wrote a post about...I feel the same way. I recently wrote a post about this on my blog, but I keep it raw, because that's what my sister does to me so that's all I know. She'll tell me in a minute that something looks horrible, or is too tight, or is a hot mess... and I'll usually agree and change. So, if I see something I don't care for too much on blogs, I just don't say anything because people catch feelings. But I don't understand why you are catching feelings or feeling some kind of way because like you said, we are putting ourselves out there and opening ourselves up whether its for the good or the bad. I don't understand it at all... glad its not just me!The Notorious ZAGhttp://biggbaddwolf.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-39719451613706663522011-10-04T08:17:31.644-07:002011-10-04T08:17:31.644-07:00Hey I have this problem all the time because I cho...Hey I have this problem all the time because I choose to be completely honest with people. Now on blogger I don't say anything cause some of these bloggers be lookn a hott mess and I don't need cyber drama. But with my girls I keep it 100. I think its more a thing of knowing when to hold ur tongue.Glohttp://respectmyfab.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-80219201256879597902011-10-03T20:42:17.180-07:002011-10-03T20:42:17.180-07:00shante why thanks I say a blogger write one day li...shante why thanks I say a blogger write one day like cute choice but I wouldn't rock it and the owner of the blog went in. I mean we set ourselves up for this!www.afatgirlsblues.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-500030171662081640.post-86391533934430091612011-10-03T19:55:57.503-07:002011-10-03T19:55:57.503-07:00I still believe believe that honesty is best. As ...I still believe believe that honesty is best. As I've learned what my friends can and can't handle, I tailor the packaging of my honesty in a way that I know that they can handle it. Sometimes the truth hurts, but if you don't want an answer or an opinion then don't ask!Shantehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03672068230296598625noreply@blogger.com